I tried working out to look more masculine, but after months with no visible progress I gave up on that. This post is brought to you by Vincero. But also — you should aim to build your own interchangeable wardrobe which includes:.
One day while my parents and sister were gone I stole some of her clothes and drove to the mall. I still had my learner's permit so I wasn't supposed to even be driving by myself.
I bought some womens clothing so I didn't have to keep taking my sister's. Over the next few months I kept going out dressed as a girl and buying more clothes, makeup, etc. I loved it and started cross dressing in public as much as possible. Eventually a guy started flirting with me and I ended up giving him my number because he still wanted it after I told him I was a boy. We texted and talked for about a month before I agreed to go on a date with him, and really I wasn't sure about going on a date with a guy but I was really enjoying the attention he was giving me.
By the end of the night we ended up having sex at his house while I kept most of my clothes on. It was never "sexy" or "hot" to me, but I really liked the attention and affection, and was just happy that someone found me attractive. Since then I keep cross dressing and going out, mostly to bars and clubs nowadays because no one ever ID's me. I really enjoy getting attention from guys, and a lot of guys will hit on me, and occasionally I meet a guy who is still interested if I tell them I'm a boy.
I've also met a few guys online who are really into it. But honestly I'm still not really into guys. Having sex with them can feel pretty good sometimes, but any time I need to get an erection I always have to think about a girl. I've tried a few times to find a girl online who was interested in me but the closest I ever got was a lesbian who lost interest when I said I was a boy.
I've stopped trying because I've given up hope that I'll ever find a girl who will give me a chance. I'm not as miserable as I used to be, but I really wish I was more masculine looking. I'm a guy who looks like a girl, and I'd rather be a pretty girl than a freak looking boy since a normal boy isn't an option.
Dude honestly I don't have any good advice but wait no actually I have one piece of advice. You don't need to "settle" for men because you're "girly" in the eyes of the masses. I'm a skinny ass dude and I'm a little embarrassed about my voice sometimes because it's not very manly.
But so it goes. I like girls and that's who I get with. Lots of girls like skinny dudes. Ive been told I talk kind of gay but also I've been told I have a nice voice. I'm not even like a huge player or anything I'm just saying if you have that defeatist attitude and sleep with dudes even though you don't enjoy it, that's going to be your life.
It's up to you to change it. On the other hand, if you are actually digging sleeping with dudes go right ahead. Idk if you're just lying or what.
Or like if you want to just dress up in girls clothes but also date a girl there's nothing wrong with that. But seriously if you're not into sleeping with dudes you really really don't have to. Just find a nice girl who's into kind of androgynous looking dudes or whatever. Go back to the gym and bulk up if that's what you want but better yet just try and be happy with what you've got.
I know being a teenager sucks or whatever but I swear to God think of all the skinny dudes that girls like and you see out on the street with pretty girlfriends. That CAN be you. People do all kinds of weird shit not that what you're doing is that weird, but people do all kinds of weird shit to find a place to fit in and where they are appreciated, but seriously I think you can find a way to be appreciated and fit in without sleeping with people you don't want to.
Hello, thanks for the advice. When I say I am not into guys I mean I am not really attracted to them physically or want to date a guy. I enjoy occasionally having sex with a guy but that is because it makes me feel better about myself that someone would be interested in me at all.
If I could find a girl who is interested in me I wouldn't have a reason to have sex with any guys. But I've tried and can't. I've seen girls with skinny boys, but I don't look anything like those skinny boys. I look like some kind of freak when I'm not dressed as a girl. I can tell people get uncomfortable around me especially when I say something. It would be ideal to meet a girl who liked me when I was dressed as a girl, but the only girl who ever showed any interest didn't want anything to do with me once she found out I was a boy.
But the only people I can find that show any interest in me are men, and I think that's better than having no one. Let me just say as a disclaimer, I understand that the whole idea of "liking guys" or "liking girls" is kind of preposterous because binaries like that are pretty unrealistic.
And as a second disclaimer I'm running off the assumption that you do like girls, and that you sleep with men for validation of some kind, and that you are being truthful when you say that you aren't particularly attracted to them.
And also additionally that you're dressing as a woman to fit in, not because that would be your natural inclination also a nonexistent phenomenon but bare with me to dress as a woman. That is to say, you aren't interested in cross dressing except as a means to an end, which is to fit into the world at large.
With all that said, I know life is hard. Life is fucked up. Hell probably as a perfect specimen of cis life, a big handsome mans man with perfect features but not too perfect, you'll find things to make life hard. An analytical brain made for pattern recognition seems to breed self doubt and depression in the best of us. So to on top of that be outside of the normal range of cis traits as I guess you are, to be visible that way, I really feel for you that that is making your life harder on top of how hard life is already.
I really, really wish I could find a way to help you beyond just saying it, but I really, really think that if you try to dial back doing things you don't want, you will make space for yourself to find opportunities to do things you do want. I swear to god there are women out there into androgynous looking dudes.
They definitely exist and if I knew some of them and knew you I would send them your way. I would be friends with a really girly looking dude. I wouldn't think twice about it.
And that makes me think that there are other people out there who would befriend you, and they wouldn't think twice of introducing you to their girl friends who might be interested in dating you. I just know that out there exists a place for you to be accepted and have things that you want, and to not settle for sleeping with people you don't want to. It might take moving to a way larger city or different place.
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At home, you might still enjoy wearing those baggy shorts or oversized shirts even though you have slimmed down…. But outside, remember that fit is king.
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